29.1.12 - It was during my holiday in China this CNY that I discovered my biggest flaw. Had chats with Susan during the trip and made a discovery. It was a constructive criticism and I accepted it.
Told her that my optician once said that I used to stare at people when I speak. Susan rationalized with me that when I do that, the other party will think that I do not trust them or have doubts in what they say. It can be very disturbing. She added that I have always been defensive every time I speak, so as to say, I tend to attack or corner people every time I open my mouth and it is offensive. She revealed that she too has problem talking to me. I really have to be very careful of what I speak. I cannot be brutally honest and not respect others feeling.
I do this to my family too. Now that I know, I feel I am my biggest enemy and I have to change myself and no one else.
Thursday, May 24, 2012
My Holiday To China (written by JW)
22.1.12 - I am now in a mini bus which head to a deck from ZhangJiaJie. 2.1.12, I went to China with my family, Gong Gong, Ama, Be Che, Be Zhim, Xi Go, Lak Go Po and Apek. We went by tour. I wish that China has snow before I went. My wish come true although it was very cold but I never mind.
First, we stay in a hotel called 'Da Cheng' for two nights.Then, we will stay in a ship for three nights.
We went to a mountain in ZhangJiaJie. The Avatar movie is taken at there. When we reach there, it was snowing. At first, I thought it will be fun but at last, it was very cold.
China food is different from Malaysia food. Some restaurants can cook dog meat and serve it to their customers. It was so cruel. But China food is OK for me.
I am so tired now. Bye!
First, we stay in a hotel called 'Da Cheng' for two nights.Then, we will stay in a ship for three nights.
We went to a mountain in ZhangJiaJie. The Avatar movie is taken at there. When we reach there, it was snowing. At first, I thought it will be fun but at last, it was very cold.
China food is different from Malaysia food. Some restaurants can cook dog meat and serve it to their customers. It was so cruel. But China food is OK for me.
I am so tired now. Bye!
My gal enjoys Museum
14.12.11 - My gal likes to visit museum. She inspects the exhibits with great interest and is normally the one who is reluctant to leave. It is like a small child not wanting to leave a playground. So far, I notice this while we went to Malacca museum and now Dubai museum.
JW Special Habits
14.12.11 - In my Dubai trip, I made a discovery. My gal has special habits not known to me before.
She loves reading, I know that. But not that I now notice that each time she flips a page, she will use her tiny fingers to feel the paper. When I ask her why she does that, she said the paper is so smooth and it is nice to feel it. She really does this on each page, no miss!
Next, I noticed too that she likes to suck a tea bag whenever she has tea. Her favourite tea is Green Tea and she had a lot in Dubai.
She loves reading, I know that. But not that I now notice that each time she flips a page, she will use her tiny fingers to feel the paper. When I ask her why she does that, she said the paper is so smooth and it is nice to feel it. She really does this on each page, no miss!
Next, I noticed too that she likes to suck a tea bag whenever she has tea. Her favourite tea is Green Tea and she had a lot in Dubai.
A Lazy Start to 2012
8.1.12 - It is already 8th day into the new year and I am still in a lazy mode. After the long break, I am still reluctant to resume my normal routine. I haven't resume the morning walk at FRIM and poor TH has to go alone. I find excuses not to cook and tend to eat out most days. I am not into full force yet, maybe I very much anticipate my next holiday to China in another 2 weeks time. Luckily, TH didn't complain. I am thankful.
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