29.1.12 - It was during my holiday in China this CNY that I discovered my biggest flaw. Had chats with Susan during the trip and made a discovery. It was a constructive criticism and I accepted it.
Told her that my optician once said that I used to stare at people when I speak. Susan rationalized with me that when I do that, the other party will think that I do not trust them or have doubts in what they say. It can be very disturbing. She added that I have always been defensive every time I speak, so as to say, I tend to attack or corner people every time I open my mouth and it is offensive. She revealed that she too has problem talking to me. I really have to be very careful of what I speak. I cannot be brutally honest and not respect others feeling.
I do this to my family too. Now that I know, I feel I am my biggest enemy and I have to change myself and no one else.
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