Thursday, January 10, 2013

I was wrong

21.2.12 - It's 12:37pm and I am now sitting at the door with my BB coffee, waiting for JW to come home from school.  P.Eun mom will fetch her today.

I am recalling a wrong advice I gave to my gal last Sunday.  She was assigned a  class project with 3 other classmates and 2 came over to our house and worked on it. Had a chat with her later and found out that the classmate that didnt come to our house to do it because her mom who is a teacher does not allow her to go to anyone house. Then I told my gal that since she didnt contribute to the project, let her do the binding work at the last stage.  Innocently, my gal asked what if she cant find a binding shop to do it.  I know she was thinking that we should do it since the binding shop is just outside our house. Then, I was annoyed and told her to let her classmate figure it out. Then our chat ended with her walking away not satisfied.

Having thought of it now, I know I am totally wrong.  I should not be calculative. My gal is being kind and considerate.  All these are good traits and I should compliment her instead of stopping her. It was my mistake. Well, I will talk to her again when she returns from school.

I remember mom used to tell me once when I was still schooling that I was too innocent to think that there is no bad guys in this world.  That was also when I was just doing good without thinking of the consequences.  Confused!

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