Monday, August 31, 2015

Mooncake Festival 2013

19.9.13 - I am going to bed tonight  feeling disappointed on this Moon cake Festival day. What supposed to be a happy day turned out to be otherwise.

I went to the market early morning  today for a simple steamboat celebration tonight. I was quite excited over the steamboat and the thought of enjoying the moon with tea, durian moon cake and lantern with Lassie too perhaps like last year.

Sadly, all didn't work out that way. Someone at home misbehaved and threw tantrum again like a spoilt brat.

When TH and I happily went to school to fetched JW this afternoon, our day was ruined. In the car, we asked the gal about her day at school. She just gave one word answers to all our conversation. She was so uninterested to talk to us. Then, she closed her eyes and ignored us. What's wrong with her? Told her if she's tired, she can say so and we will understand and leave her alone. But she didn't and she was just throwing tantrum. So, we ended up coming home with sour faces. I couldn't tolerate her bad behaviour, so I banned her from using the iPad for the day.

In the evening, We just had a quick steamboat dinner as there was no sign of her repentance. She didn't feel remorse at all. I was waiting for her to show better attitude but it didn't happen. Just before bedtime, she showed me a birthday invitation from her classmate, Elly on this Sat. I told her that I won't allow her to go if she keep on misbehaving. Almost immediately, she did it yet again, threw tantrum, packed up and went upstairs to bed, didn't wish us goodnite, haiz.

This time, I must keep my words, no means no. She must learn to behave well. She must show that she is willing to change for better. She must accept her wrongdoing and apologize. She must have control of her temper.

Unless she improves her attitudes, no more green light for her. What an awful day!


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